Things I feel sometimes….these sometimes are quite often!

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Times when you just won’t want to smile. Those moments when you try hard not to let the tears roll out since you are in a public place. When life seems meaningless. You know things you need to do but you would not want to do. Motivation leaves you high and dry. Those days when all you are trying to stop your mind from thinking about someone who is gone now. You try you try and you try. All in vain. Not a moment will pass without you thinking of them. There was nothing bad about them there was nothing wrong in the way you got apart. Everything happened the right way. You can not blame anybody but you. You read all those journals which tell you not to blame yourself but you know it was all your fault, it still is. Nobody can take away this truth from you. It will die with you. Those moments when you want your death to come right now right here but nothing happens by your own wish neither will this.


Failures and me !


I run for months and then I realise it was for nothing

I travel hundreds of mile and then I realise it was all in vain

But no they don’t stop me from starting another journey

For all I know it’s all to build the person I am going to be one day

As I am told I am bit over optimistic I don’t get deterred

For I realise that is what differentiates me from the crowd

But I am hiding a part of reason why it all came to nothing

May be I could have run faster

May be only one more mile was there to cover

May be I was seconds away from my fruit

May be I should have tried another path

I know next time I will not leave any stone unturned

Only concern is if I will get that next time

To this my heart and my brain say in Unisom

Yes! For those who believe they get thousands of next times

You just need to recognise them

May be one of those are waiting for me round the corner!

50 most positive one liners


One of my friends shared this and it instantly clicked with me. It is a really nice collection of one liners we can follow in our lives and they are :
1. Have a firm handshake.
2. Look people in the eye.
3. Sing in the shower.
4. Own a great stereo system.
5. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
6. Keep secrets.
7. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
8. Always accept an outstretched hand.
9. Be brave. Even if you’re not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
10. Whistle.
11. Avoid sarcastic remarks.
12. Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery.
13. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out.
14. Lend only those books you never care to see again.
15. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have.16. When playing games with children, let them win.
17. Give people a second chance, but not a third.
18. Be romantic.
19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
20. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.
21. Don’t allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It’s there for our convenience, not the caller’s.
22. Be a good loser.
23. Be a good winner.
24. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
25. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
26. Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
27. Keep it simple.
28. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
29. Don’t burn bridges. You’ll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
30. Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets
31. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
32. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
33. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
34. Take charge of your attitude. Don’t let someone else choose it for you.
35. Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes.
36. Begin each day with some of your favourite music.
37. Once in a while, take the scenic route.
38. Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, ‘Someone who thinks you’re terrific.’
39. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
40. Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.
41. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
42. Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
43. Make someone’s day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.
44. Become someone’s hero.
45. Marry only for love
46. Count your blessings.
47. Compliment the meal when you’re a guest in someone’s home.
48. Wave at the children on a school bus.
49. Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
50. Don’t expect life to be fair.

I dont take credit for any of these but found very useful so caring for sharing 🙂

Fears , guilt and desires…

We have some fears which live with us all the time

There is a constant struggle of what might have been right

And there is a constant guilt of what we know we did wrong

Deep inside deep down a part of us constantly struggles to come around !


Hundreds of desires take birth all the time

Desires some of which are wrong and some we consider right

Some desires that hurt people though intentions were never wrong

Deep inside deep down a part of us cries for these desires to come around !


In life we meet people all the time

Few of them leave their impact which is so powerfull and right

We could have been together had the situations not been wrong

Deep inside deep down a part of us longs for them to come again come around !


Old memories come rushing back all the time

Sometimes in the state of emotions we forget what is wrong and what is right

And in those moments we miss people not knowing why it should be wrong

Missing remains , longings prevails , destiny derails and desires trail !

And deep inside deep down there are no happy endings coming around !



The farewell note…

As we bid goodbyes , the happy and the unhappy ones

As we move ahead , not knowing the endings fate has decided for us

As we exchange smiles one last time, not knowing what to say

This is not the end but the beginning of a new story lets say!!!

Arms surrounding shoulders and eyes washing away the tears

Fate has it that we gotta fight our own fears

Tredding the last journey of student life for all they say

This is not the end but the beginning of a new story lets say!!!

What if we all lived together , in good times and despair

For the life is sometimes harsh and it is difficult alone to bear

Stumbling on old stories and remembering things that made us say

This is not the end but the beginning of a new story lets say!!!

In life we will meet again and in better conditions my dear

All the memories left behind will be the beautifull souvenir

There will be lots of stories , fights and complaints to hear

And we will say yes that was a beginning well followed my dear !!!


5 Things We Can Change This Women’s Day…

Not just on Woman’s day its for all the days….


RRGwritesInternational Women’s Day is round the corner; and like every year, quite a lot is being said and written about the subject. My view; every such day is a soft reminder to all of us that some things should change, and they better change for good, else, what’s the point in the entire fuss we make about this day! More importantly, such change should bring about simple, yet meaningful difference in lives of those around us…in our daily lives.

As a man who works in offices, travels extensively, meets hundreds of people every week, and observe myriad human behaviour, here are the five extremely easy (and yet, quite apparently difficult for a lot of us!) things I believe we can change, in recognition to the Women’s Day:

  1. At work, let’s acknowledge that women are equal in all aspects, if not better; and let’s do so purely on merits…

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Not that I am faint hearted

Not that I am a cry baby

Not that I don’t want to forget

It just won’t go!

Desperation it may be

Just an attraction it can be

Infatuations and all those hormones yes

I know everything but

It just won’t go!1662002_647607431959270_1416292831_n

Hello world!

I am a girl. Single, independent and a bit headstrong as my mother says. Life has been tough and I have given it a tougher challenge. In this 27 years of journey there have been instances when I broke down , felt like this is the end that I can not go anymore. There were times when I pointed fingers at people not realizing the other four were rightly pointing towards me . I have made mistakes and I have learnt from them. Sometimes I feel I have seen everything and then I see the kid without clothes in 4 Deg. Centigrade Temperature and the reality strikes. I have been foolish and I have been dumb. In fact I feel I am a very very foolish person. Actually I dont know what I am , why I exist , what is my purpose of life. I am doing a job in which I am happy but everyday I come back home I feel empty , its like I should do something more but what is that. What is the purpose of my life , its unknown to me and I am searching for it. I dont know how this blog is going to help but I thought why not start with this !

And here I am 🙂